How can a man reach perfection?

A normal human being would normally seek perfection in every aspect of life. Perfection in ones work, perfection in ones carrier, a perfect house to live in, a perfect partner to be with, a perfect relationship, we want everything to be perfect.

But how can we be perfect ourselves? You might throw me back a question , Can a human being be really perfect because we always hear the slogan " Nobody is perfect"? Indeed it is true that nobody is perfect in this world.

Each being has his own goodness and also defects. We can not deny this fact. Many people would just allow themselves be left in this ideology and make it into an excuse of their lack of perseverance in seeking perfection.

You'll say , how can perfection be attained then if all of us have our own defects? In this case I want to share to you a story, this is a little childish but like any other fairy tale stories that we hear in our childhood days we could also get a very good lesson in this.

Being simple means to be what you are and who you are and not to show of what you are not. That little crack in your personality and in your appearance, you can convert that into a good point in you. Turn your imperfections into a perfection by being simple.

It is true reality of this world that the words of kindness may bring many of our opposite towards kind and gentle attitude of affection towards us. So being a good human being we must be polite and respective in our speaking because harsh words can only create the distance and can separated us from our dear ones but the affectionate words can make our life so smooth and good.

It is famous maxim that good tongue may lead our destiny towards the crown and throne of this world and on contrary to this if we have hard speaking in our life then we will be left behind and no one would love to sit close to us because according to my personal experience people will just bear you for some specific time and after that no one will stand beside you. So determine today that you will always be kind and soft with yours fellow human being in order to bring the more charms and beauty in yours life.

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What is more efficient a trendy email or the old fashioned snail mail?

Now a days in this generation called the "touch generation" because everything is already operated by just a touch of a finger tip things becomes so fast and easy. More and more development in technology are coming up and people becomes more and more innovative trying to see how could things be done faster and faster. 

Everybody always wants things to really fast; fast food,fast car, fast access to everything, fast communication, etc. About five decades back you have to wait for days and even months before your letter be delivered and another same number of days to get your reply but now with the development of the electronic mail you can communicate to anyone around the world in just a matter of seconds as if the person is just in front of you. 

But, which is really more efficient, the trendy email or the old fashioned snail mail? Our answers may matter depending on our circumstances and the nature of the mail that we have in mind considering its purpose and sense of urgency. photo taken

Let us tackle this idea together.

Primarily email was created for business purposes and to facilitate mails that needs to be tackle as soon as possible and to make way to mails that needs emergency attention. In this case it is just correct to use email when you are to send mails regarding business and of of course letter that needs urgent attention such as emergency cases of death, sickness and needs. But if you want to send someone a greeting for her birthday, thanksgiving or Christmas or to share your experiences of a trip majority would appreciate better the old fashioned mailed cards and postcards. 

The greeting is more felt and more special if effort is present. A thought is better heard when there is a tangible evidence. The posted mail is more personal than the email or the regards that we just click to send. After all birthdays, anniversaries, and holiday celebrations such as Christmas and Thanksgiving are happening that you can really for see throughout the year. 

They are permanent celebration therefore there is no excuse of forgetting or being caught in a surprise which are common excuses of not being able to greet. Let's just put it this way " The person who really care will never forget a day that he/she knows is very meaningful to the other person and always he/ she would want to celebrate that special day with him/her". Indeed forgetfulness is never an excuse because the person who loves really will never forget the person whom he loves because his first thought would be for that person.

Christmas is just peeping around the corner why dont you start putting live back those old yet memorable way of greeting that really shows your great desire and spells your care. Why not start sending Christmas cards to your friends now? Its not yet too late because nothing is too late ..

Did you know that, that ring in your finger talks a lot?

Are you fun of wearing a ring? Then this is good for you to know. A ring could be just a simple fashion but it could also be a symbol or a sign of the persons' personality and status in life. Here are some meaning depending on how and what kind of ring one is wearing and in what finger the ring is worn. Every person has five pairs of finger normally. 

You've got the thumb, the index, the middle, the ring and of course the pinkie. In some places people wear ring on all their fingers from thumb to pinkie but most commonly many people wear their ring in either the middle finger or the ring finger. 

Fashion rings are usually worn at the middle finger because normally these rings are heavy and are extraordinarily big and bulky and with intricate designs. Many people are too careful not to slip just any ring on their ring finger because it indicates a lot about who you are, particularly the left ring finger. 

The ring finger on the left hand is kept empty until the person either get engage or married. But did you know that wearing a blue colored ring or bond on your left ring finger means that you are free. 

Free meaning you are not married nor engage nor in relationship. A blue ring means you are not committed and you are searching for your Mr or Miss right. It also indicates that you are free to be ask for a date in the case of women. 

In the case of men it means the person is not committed of any sort to any woman. Therefore if you want other people know something about you, let your ring say it for you. And if you don't want anyone bothering, you just wear a ring on your left ring finger to turn them down. photo taken